Professional Aspect

Navigating the diplomatic waves can be daunting. Unbeknownst to you, an official ceremony may involve some unexpected protocols and instructions. Worry not!

We have set up a brief, simple list of basic do’s and don’ts. These are a collection of recommendations from some of our members to try and help you understand what may be expected from you. This list is by no means exhaustive and some points may be discussed, but it should serve as a stepping stone for an otherwise unaware person.

The Do’s

The Don’ts

Supportive Attitude: Be supportive of your spouse’s career in diplomatic service, understanding the demands and challenges they may face. Cultural Sensitivity: Develop cultural awareness and sensitivity to navigate various social norms and customs, as diplomatic postings often involve interactions with diverse populations. Networking: Engage in diplomatic events and social gatherings to build a network of contacts, fostering relationships that could be beneficial for your spouse’s work. Language Learning: If applicable, learn the local language to facilitate communication and integration within the host country’s society. Adaptability: Embrace change and adapt to new environments, as diplomatic postings may involve frequent relocations and adjustments to different living conditions. Community Engagement: Get involved in the expatriate community and local activities to establish a support system and make new friends. Confidentiality: Respect the need for confidentiality and discretion in diplomatic matters, especially those your spouse might discuss at home. Public Diplomacy: Understand that your actions and behaviour can reflect on your spouse’s professional image and the country they represent, so engage in positive public interactions. Research and Learning: Stay informed about global and local affairs to engage in meaningful conversations with diplomats and other international community members. Emotional Resilience: Develop emotional resilience to cope with the challenges of diplomatic life, such as separations due to work-related travel.

Political Involvement: Avoid direct involvement in local politics or taking positions that could be perceived as interfering in the host country’s internal affairs. Cultural Insensitivity: Steer clear of behaviors that might offend local customs, traditions, or religious sensitivities. Overstepping Boundaries: Refrain from attempting to involve yourself in your spouse’s official duties, negotiations, or decision-making processes. Gossip and Speculation: Avoid spreading rumors or discussing sensitive diplomatic matters outside the appropriate circles. Non-Disclosure Breach: Never share confidential information or details about your spouse’s work that could compromise diplomatic relations or national security. Isolation: Don’t isolate yourself from the local culture and community, as this can hinder your personal growth and integration. Comparisons and Complaints: Avoid constant comparisons between host and home countries or dwelling on complaints about living conditions. Public Critique: Refrain from publicly criticizing your spouse’s workplace, colleagues, or the host country, as this could negatively impact diplomatic relationships. Assuming Privileges: Do not assume entitlement to diplomatic privileges or special treatment beyond what is customary. Ignoring Well-being: Don’t neglect your physical and mental well-being; prioritize self-care to maintain a healthy balance between personal and diplomatic life.